Inner? Outer? Or Both?

When we meet people, the first thing we look at is someone's appearance. Don't say that's not what you look at. Be honest, everyone looks at the outer at first, unless if they can see through people and see their inner, which is impossible. Is outer beauty that important?

To me, it's important but not THAT important. It's important because I want to at least feel good looking at the person. But then if someone doesn't look that great, I will get used to it soon (The more you see something, the more you will get used to it). Maybe I'll start to think they aren't that bad (I always see that in drama and some reality shows). Everyone is unique in their own way and everyone has their own pretty side. I actually haven't met anyone that I think looks horrible. There was one but then everyone thinks she isn't very pretty or smart (in and out), and I was never friends with her.

I've heard that not so pretty people are nice and pretty people aren't so nice. I think that is somewhat true but not completely true. I think pretty people aren't nice because some of them know they are pretty and all that, they can use it to the max and get what they want. They just look down at people. Not sure because I'm not pretty so don't know how pretty people thinks. I've also read online that people think if someone looks pretty but don't have a good inner, it's a no no. It's not true that not so pretty people are nice. I've seen some that are b****y and mean. It really depends on the person.

I just want to say outer beauty is important but up to a certain point. Outer beauty won't last forever, people will get old, they get wrinkly and saggy. That's life. What I think people should look for in a person is (good) inner beauty. Something that may take you a whole life time (or less) to find out but it will for sure last longer than outer beauty. Inner beauty can change too after certain life situation but it shouldn't change that much. I believe if someone has a kind heart they will always have that in them no matter how much they change. Just like how if someone isn't nice before, that mean side of them will always be there no matter how much people say they have mature/change.

It would be perfect if we can all find someone with a good inner and outer but life is never that perfect. If there is such a person, I would love to meet them.

Line from a drama, "if someone truly likes you, no matter what your outer is like,  they won't mind"

What's more important to you?

Random moment, I don't really remember this drama, it's too long ago but it was about this girl who isn't pretty and somehow she turned pretty. Her not pretty look reminds me of the person that I said has a bad inner and outer.
容祖兒 JOEY YUNG《美麗在望》
"能望透愛是為誰造
流動了美麗大道
不必擔心失戀
遇著眼緣
連鋼筋都鬆軟
世界是個花園
段段眼緣
為你兜圈
誰人能離得開"