What A FRIEND!

This post is not about everyone, just that one person, so don't hate me if I'm offending anyone. It's one LONG post.

So I was hanging out with 2 of my besties and one of them told me about this story, someone I dislike since grade 8. I guess not everyone that believes in God are good people after all. One of my friend and I made a nickname for her since high school so I'll use that in this post. I'm sure some of you will know who it is just by looking at it? I'm so mean, I came up with it. It's... low B (say low in Cantonese).

Anyways, let the story begin. (I'm retelling the story so I'm just saying what I remembered, not the exact words my friend said, may be slightly different) So before meeting up with my friends, one of them told me she has to tell me something about low B. I'm like thinking hm...what would it be? Please tell me she is not getting married anymore (I'm so mean, but I'm only mean to people that are mean to me). But you know mean/bad people always get all the good stuff in life right? While the good people like us never get anything except bad stuff...

My friend's mom bought low B all these gifts without knowing that she had a gift registry. My friend dropped the stuff off at low B's place and afterwards low B kept texting and calling my friend telling her to give her a call back asap. So my friend called and can you believe what low B said to her? Low B said it's nice that you got me all that stuff but I have most of it already. The pillows (huge pillows that were $70?) are too big, you know we are downsizing, we aren't living with our parents anymore. So, can you come and pick it all up? I'll just keep the coin because it's something you and your mother choose for me. (A Canadian Mint coin that say $20 or something with "Married in 2017" on it but it cost $122.xx) Low B thought that coin was only worth $20. She said if it's a close friend, you should at least give $120 for both events (I guess bridal and wedding?), if not so close then maybe $80. Then my friend went to pick the gifts back, gave her a card with a stapled receipt that showed how much the coin cost. Low B wasn't there and her mom is like oh, I'm sorry, I don't know what to say. Sure you don't, you taught that "lovely" daughter yourself, like mother, like daughter. Woman, if you were a good mother, you would have told her to just keep it. Obviously, you aren't.

When I heard the story I'm just like WTF!? What kind of person is she, that is so disrespectful. I thought she was one of your "close" friend. If someone gives you something and you don't like it or don't need it, keep it to yourself. It's yours now, you can do whatever with it (give it to someone else, donate it, throw it, keep it and collect dust) but don't tell that person to take it back! Auntie and my friend didn't just choose that damn coin only, but everything! Gifts are a thought from the heart, that's what they thought you would like or need! I would be more than happy if I got all those gifts (my friend listed so many items, so crazy). As a collector myself (coins, stamps, anything cute and nice), that coin is the best thing ever, I thought it was very meaningful (she thinks it's worth $20...get a life!).

And who the hell tell people how much the guests should give them for their wedding? If so, might as well put that amount on your invitation "don't come if you don't give us $120 plus". She actually put on her invite, to help us along the way, a monetary gift towards our home would really make our day, seriously? Who the BEEP would put that on an invitation card. It makes it sound so cheap, like you have to bring something or don't forget to give us something. Desperate for money? She sounds so materialistic! (Well, I hope you know how the poor feels someday, maybe right after your wedding) Honestly, low B isn't even worth a penny! I would ask for that coin back if I were you, my friend. Maybe b**** slap her in the face while you are at it. But I know my friend won't, we are all too nice. =)

And some people just don't have that much money, you can't just expect people to give you a certain amount based on how close they are with you. It all depends on how financially stable they are. Some people are just better off than others. Like how old are you low B? How do you not understand such a simple common sense? Time to get your brain renew.

Like dude! It's a wedding, don't try to earn money from it or get enough back to pay off everything. If you don't have enough money then don't get married, don't make it so big or so grand. You don't have to show off every moment of your life. (I really want to see the day when something bad happens to her, will she still show it off) People are there to celebrate with you, low B. But I guess it will be the last thing they will celebrate with you. (sorry, I do have an evil side to me but only for mean people)

You are probably wondering if my friend is still going to low B's wedding, uh, yes... I told her not to but she said at least go and eat all the food provided. She did give her a coin, so might as well make good use of it. I said ok, fine, make sense. I told her do not give anymore money or whatever to her that day. Don't congratulate her, don't take pictures with her, just go late, eat, and leave! I hope my friend will stay strong and do all that. Oh! remember to unfriend her or block her. Low B doesn't deserve you as a friend, too good for her! (*sigh*, my friend isn't strong enough, she took pictures with her!!!)

I guess low B is very good in acting her "good" girl role (but she can't fool me) because my friend thought she was one. Seriously, she never gave me that good girl feeling, she is so fake. Not sure why my friend(s) didn't see it all along (and you said I was bias... well now you know). Finally, people see the real her, thank God. I remember low B was trying to be all cool and "sheet" in grade 11 or something and she "abandoned" my friend and her group. What a friend! And when she is not that cool anymore, she went back to them... I guess outsider see things more clearly? Oh well, usually people don't need friends after they get married, as long as they have the guy. Well, "good luck".

Lol, I actually realized my friend is good at acting too. She can act like she likes those people but she actually don't like them... I don't know how my friend can do that. I can never act like nothing happened.

I have no clue what that guy sees in her but then whatever (love is blind), I hope they have a "great" life together. She believes in God so much eh? I'm sure God will teach her a lesson and give her something "good" in the future. God is watching you, low B. Someone that doesn't have a pretty inner doesn't deserve anything like that. And she doesn't have a good outer either, did I say her smile is very weird and fake (I'm not the only one that thinks that way).

I just don't understand how someone like her and other evil people can get married and have a family?  "天" really don't have eyes? I guess something must be wrong with me, maybe I did do something really bad, maybe what I'm doing now? If what I'm saying on this post is considered "bad", then I have nothing to say. Those people that I dislike (at least one of them) have done things way worse than what I'm typing here, they are still living a great life. Shall I be evil as well? I wish I can but I'll never learn. I'm not saying I'm a good person (never did) but I don't think I deserve all the bad stuff that happened/happening in my life (You'll know on my Friday's post). At least I'm honest that I'm not a good person and I don't act like a good girl infront of people. I've never done anything horribly bad in my life either.

I hardly dislike people and if I do, it's usually because I find them not very nice or they said something bad about me first. Good thing is other people also see the real side of them afterwards and dislike them as well. I guess I was right all along. People just have to find out themselves. Low B actually said my eyes were small in grade 8. Yea, my eyes are small (so what?) but at least they are kind looking (A guy said they look like rainbows LOL! They kind of do when I smile) not like your evil/b****y eyes. I still remember how I got a better grade than her on something and she was all upset about it, *cough* jealous. Probably jealous that I have tiny kind eyes as well. =D She used to like these 2 guys and I always make her jealous. =) One of them kept holding my hand when he could have let go during dance class in PE. You know those break where the dance stops and the teacher keeps talking, yup, those times. Another guy had this super long eye contact with me in homeroom. I even asked my friend if he is looking at me, she said yes. I guess I wasn't seeing things after all.

So funny, one friend was like low B should have kept those big pillows. She may need it one day, when he leaves her! So low B has something to hold onto LOL! Sorry, we are so mean. If she didn't say such a thing to my friend, I don't think I would say so much bad stuff about her. My friends say how I'm so good at thinking of all these (evil) ideas (but they like), well, I am a thinker after all hehe. Long time ago, I think one of them said I'm funny when I'm mad. I guess I can get so mad and say the funniest thing ever? And I hardly get that mad.

Oh, we were also joking how she wants people to give at least $120. I said the people that gives $80 or less don't get to eat. The ones that pay $120, ok eat a bit. People that pay $120 plus, eat lots. Man, I didn't know she was that cheap!

I actually told my besties, if I become like low B one day, please slap me in the face and give me a chance to change. If I don't change, please unfriend me, I don't deserve to be your friend. In elementary, I have been a bad friend and friends were bad to me, too young and didn't think, lost some friends but it's ok. I learned and changed in high school. Never too late. =)

This story is the reason why I hope it rains on Saturday (low B's cheap wedding). Just helping a friend, I hope our wish come true. Bring on the storm! Hail, lightning, thunder and everything not nice! Muhahaha! =) I'm so good at saying all the bad stuff but I can never do anything bad. =( And I know non of these bad things will happen to low B... Just a thought... (Just as I thought, nothing bad will happen... it was sunny like hell!)

No song, she doesn't deserve anything!*slap slap*