Friday, September 22, 2017

Does Height Matter?

Does height matter to you? It does to me. My friend's boyfriend asked me "is height your deal breaker even if that guy has everything" (everything- I'm not that materialistic although it would be nice). I said "yes". They were saying "seriously but height isn't everything".

Yes, it's not everything but it is something (to me). Well, would you girls date a guy that is shorter than you? You might say yea, but it's different when it actually happens. Before I thought it wasn't a big deal too but then which girl doesn't want a taller guy? If he can't fight he can still looks tall and can protect us right? If he is shorter, he can maybe still do the same? But I don't like how I'll always have to look down at him everytime. Let's just say I'm more traditional in a way. I always think the guy should be taller.

I had a good guy friend years ago (the one that said my eyes are like rainbows), I think he liked me, at least I felt something more than friends from him (I don't like him that way though). We were walking one day and he suddenly asked "You are taller than me right?". I'm like...I didn't say anything, I just smiled and changed to next topic. He wasn't that much shorter but it just felt strange. It's hard to explain. I guess people wouldn't know until they try it.

I mean I do see couples (celebrities) where the guy is shorter than the girl and good for them if they are ok with it. There is nothing wrong with it, it's just something wrong with me. Even if I didn't mind the whole height thing, the guy would probably mind. Why would he go find a girl that is taller than him? I guess it all depends on how much 2 people like each other?

5"6 isn't that tall, why is it so hard to find someone taller?

Oh well, everyone has their own standards when it comes to an ideal partner. Nothing wrong with that right?

Random moment, he and his wife is an example of my topic. As long as they are happy, who cares what other people think. I like this song.
王祖藍 Cho Lam - 跌落凡間的天使
"原諒 我極像孩子
夢 萬般的蠢事
從天 跌落凡間的故事
似 已共你開始
是 你美麗如斯
像 夜深的天使
人間 發現純真的意義
你 已是我所思
為何還流動在心扉 日後只想抱著你 
仍無懼是落差二萬六千里
 就算再三被下放到絕地 
這愛仍然不死 我要共你一起
凡塵裡原是沒先知 並沒把握你願意 
忘懷萬丈夜空在地上奔馳 
是你的聲音在訴說幸運 
我盼博你歡心 
你 延續了這段情史 
能否聽多一次 
是 我剩下零分 
沒 甚麼的可能 
情感 已被回收幾百份
我 也冒要攀登"

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