Stingy or Not?

Everyone spends their money differently, it depends on how much they earn or how much they want to save. Whether they have a budget or not.

Anyways, I was just thinking of what my ex co-worker was telling me. She said one of her boyfriend's friend doesn't really spend money. She described him as stingy. That word sounded like he isn't trying to save money, just don't want to spend it on himself or anyone. I don't remember everything that she said but something like the following. She said he won't even spend money on food at the food court. He would rather go to a supermarket and find the cheapest drink on the shelve. He makes good money too but just never spend on food when they go hang. I said maybe he spends them on figures or games? She said no, he just doesn't spend. I said maybe he wants to save up for something? Everyone has their own reasons.

She was telling me about it because her boyfriend`s 2 friends are single. She said this one isn`t good, he swears a lot, can`t trust the stuff he says, and he is stingy. The other one is better but she found out he is crazy religious but super nice and I'm not religious at all, so no thanks...I have seen them before but didn't feel anything.

Well, maybe he doesn't like spending that much money on food, just food, as long as it keep him full it's all good? I used to pick the cheapest item on the menu when I go out (back in high school) because I know I don't have much money. And during high school time, I was a big spender on useless stuff. I remember I used to be so crazy with all these cute, pretty stationaries. I didn't need them, at least not that much. Now, those stationaries are just sitting there collecting dust. I'll give them to my kids (if I have any). I still spend a lot on things I don`t really need but I have better control now. If I spend too much this month , I`ll spend less next month. I haven't been doing that...I feel like I'm spending more than I save... not good!

You know what I realized? I think the richer the people are the cheaper (stingy) they are. Don't you think so? I do have examples but I won't share them. I don't really understand why, what are they gonna do with all that money if they don't spend it?

So stingy or not?

No song, no mood to find one, too much crap happening in my life that is making me unhappy and stressed. And I'm too busy with my new drama.