Couples may give you the feeling that they are perfect, so lovey dovey (especially in the beginning of a relationship). However, you don't know what they are like when no-one is around. Maybe they don't talk, hate or are horrible to each other. Human always want "face" infront of people so they will obviously just show everyone the "good stuff". I mean who would want to tell the whole world about how crappy their relationship is? (Some people do, the ones that are brave and don't give about what other's think.) They know people will just gossip about them. Some people may even say "HA! Finally, they deserve it!". Something they probably do not want happening.
At the same time, who doesn't want to be that "perfect couple" in everyone's eyes? Who doesn't want a perfect relationship where only good things would happen? However, reality is reality. There are always ups and downs and all around in life, happy and sad. Human have emotions, tempers etc. Couples argue, some, on the tiniest problems ever. Some people say it's weird if a couple never argue because when something does happen, they won't know how to handle it and things can explode pretty bad (happened to a friend...). I'm not saying couples should argue but that's just part of a relationship, any relationship. That's how 2 people become stronger, through challenges and hard times. Or that's how a relationship ends...
Honestly no matter how much you love or like someone, there will always be something that you don't like about them and want them to change. That's because everyone is different and no-one is perfect, everyone has their flaws, bad habits, you name it. But we still love and like them for who they are (some). Don't tell me there is someone that you like or love and you are happy with everything about them. If there is, please proof me wrong.
That's my thought on it.
I was gonna post something else but this post has been sitting there for awhile, since March or April? I was planning to stop posting on my day off but don't wanna keep so much drafts.
Random moment, I like this when I heard the bolded lyrics. Not sure but some part of the music sound so "Beauty and the Beast" LOL! Looking at the lyrics made me have teary eyes. The MV kinda made me think what my future would be like if I was with "that person" (where the couple was arguing). It's hard but I would still be with "that person". Doesn't matter now, he doesn't like me anymore so I'm not gonna give him my all.
R. City - Locked Away ft. Adam Levine
"If I got locked away
And we lost it all today
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?
If I showed you my flaws
If I couldn't be strong
Tell me honestly, would you still love me the same?
If a judge for life me, would you stay by my side?
Or is you gonna say goodbye?
Can you tell me right now?
If I couldn't buy you the fancy things in life
Shawty, would it be alright? (Yes, I can buy it myself)
Come on show me that you are down
Would you spend your whole life with me?
Would you be there to always hold me down?
Tell me would you really cry for me? (always....)
Baby don't lie to me
If I didn't have anything
I wanna know would you stick around?
All I want is somebody real who don't need much
A girl I know that I can trust
To be here when money low
If I did not have nothing else to give but love
Would that even be enough? (yes, it would, as long as someone give me all his love)