You know how I've been talking to people that I'm not interested but some are considered ok. I have been reading online to see what people say. Most people said you should just straight up say you are not interested in them. Don't waste their time or your time.
Some say that you should go out and try because they actually ended up marrying that person that they were not interested in in the beginning.
I actually think the second one would be better unless if I know deep down I will not go for him at all if he was the last man on earth lol! I mean most of them are ok so I will give them and myself a chance. I mean I'll never know until I actually meet the person right? Maybe his picture isn't that great but he looks totally ok IRL or the other way around. Maybe he sounds boring through messages but super talkative IRL. You will never know until you meet them unless if you know them IRL.
And if it doesn't work out at least I tried and I gained another experience. I'm networking right now, becoming more confident in talking to people. I think I'm ok confident at least I wasn't shaking or doing anything like I was nervous. Or maybe because I just have no feelings for them so I'm not even nervous?
Finding someone that understands me 100% is hard. Some people think I don't talk much is weird and it makes them uninterested. Well, that's your loss not mine. I can talk a lot once I feel like I know you a bit more and can be trusted. I don't just open up to anyone.
But if dudes out there can't wait then don't wait. It just means you are not worth it.
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