I don't want to do this but I gave it a try. Wow, online dating is much more confusing and harder than I thought. If you have been reading you should know I would talk about this but not in detail.
I got interesting messages, after like 1 day. Like "am I your cup of tea?", "want to be my gf?", "nice hair btw" etc. (LOL, wanna know what shampoo I use?) Some dudes start conversation but don't ask anything, I don't want to be the one that keeps asking questions. I don't want to be annoying or makes him think "omg she is so interested". It's because you are not asking anything! I don't want the conversation to just die. It actually makes me really bored and not interested at all. I'm also running out of questions to ask. How is it even a conversation when one side is doing all the questioning and one side doing all the answering... *roll eyes* It feels like you don't really want to know me...
Got a few dudes saying "you look pretty" or "your profile is good and you look great too". I feel like if people out there are lacking some confidence, they should try online dating, lots of random strangers will compliment you lol. Maybe they are lying but it feels good haha!
You know what's more interesting? My bestie and I bumped into this guy that she went out on a date with (long ago). How is that interesting? Um, he messaged me that same day before we bumped into him lol! Hey, it's a small world, sometimes.
Honestly, I got bored of these apps after half a day. Some guys are weird and some don't say much. I don't know what they want. I don't even know why some guys like me or message me but they don't even really show much interest afterwards. Some don't even start a conversation. So weird. Maybe just don't bother me in the first place if you are not THAT interested! I know, they are probably like "why don't you start the conversation?". I did, to two dudes (you should be happy if you are one of them lol) and I won't message anymore, I guess all I'll do is sit back and wait from now on.
There are some nice guys out there but I'm not interested. Just not physically attracted but the stuff they say are very nice. They actually want to know me as a person or wants to talk. I don't mind being friends with them just nothing more than a friend, at least not now. I know some will hate me when they find out but what happens in the future, let it be.
I was eyeing on a few dudes but I feel like no hope. I didn't even bother. I do believe that if there is fate we will meet someday. Let fate do its work.
A few of the guys that liked or messaged me are really good looking (bestie said they were hot lol! I don't really trust good looking guys anymore. I'll stick with ok looking from now on.) but I feel like I may give up on this soon... Probably go back to meeting people the old fashion way. We will see. I realized every time when I want to give up, some dudes will message or ask me to meet up. Let's see how it goes. =) I'm happy but at the same time...maybe I shouldn't be so happy just yet. Things don't come easily. I'm just afraid my happiness won't last like before... =(
More stories on Monday.
Out of the blue, I don't know if the title applies to this post but some of the lyrics does.
伍富橋 Alvin - 不只是朋友
"我與你 未預期的邂逅
幻像或是真的看透 婉拒或是接受
我暗裡 練習來將我感覺說出口
最愛的人在哪裡 未寄的情怎收取 (I want to know where too)
沿路有多麼崎嶇 最美一幕 我仍全力追
眉目有一絲應許 我也想等下去
日夜伴聚都不會夠 好想找到藉口
活在現實多少引誘 可會永遠牽手 (is there even such a thing as forever nowadays?)
聽說過 做十年好友 不會有分手 (I don't think I can wait 10 more years to befriend someone in order to be together forever. I'll be a freaking old woman by then lol)
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