Networking Experience III

Hm...went out with someone and thought it's not what I thought...

First of all, this dude was late, strike one. When he showed up he looked a bit different compared to his picture, he aged so much... I was a bit turned off but I was like whatever, just give it a try, looks doesn't matter too much. The tone when he asked if I was hungry kind of creeped me out a bit... (like no, not anymore...)

Oh and he said how his job is flexible so he is always late. I'm like...wow! Just because it's flexible doesn't mean you should be late all the time. No wonder he was late to meet up. He thinks that is ok? I don't think he is ok...

In the beginning it felt ok but during the talk I was like...what is he talking about, I don't understand. But obviously I'll have my lovely smile on like yea, I totally understand you... not... I had stuff I wanted to ask but I didn't want to ask anymore. And I asked if he wanted some fries and he didn't even ask if I wanted one damn shrimp from his large plate. What a guy!? He seems like a selfish person.

Strike two, I can't believe he didn't offer to pay (cheap!). I read online if he is a good guy and he isn't interested he will still pay. Obviously he ain't a gentlemen, just another a**hole out there. Funny thing was when the waiter gave us the bill, he asked him if he needs the card machine (he thought that a**hole would be paying) and he said "yes". I had my wallet out and the waiter asked "together"? He said "separate'. I think the waiter was like thinking, girl, this guy isn't worth it, you deserve someone way better than this cheap a**. I'm sure this waiter have seen numerous people on dates lol.

My friend said "maybe that's why he transits" (I'm not against people that transit but I would like an ideal guy to be able to drive me around), I asked if he drives, he paused... He said "yea, just not to work but I don't really need the car to get around". Um...it's Canada, it's hard to get around without a car. My friend said "does he want the girl to transit with him on every date?". Don't know and don't care.

Strike three, he didn't walk me back to the mall, he just said "I'm meeting a friend across the street". Wow, that was one crappy date ever. I wish that cheap a**hole good luck in finding a girl. That girl is gonna suffer pretty bad with him. I wish I can tell all the girls out there who this a**hole is but I won't do that.

Oh, this part made my friends laughed. I feel like I got scammed! How? Well, he listed on his profile that he is a gym rat and I was thinking hmm...he must be quite fit, muscular with a 6 pack. IRL...are you sure you are a gym rat? You don't look fit at all, no offense. I asked "how often do you go to the gym"? He said "I try to do 2 times a week". Um...to me a gym rat goes to the gym at least 5 days a week. Like don't list yourself as a gym rat if you don't go at least 5 times a week yo! I was freaking scammed!

But when we messaged I kind of knew he isn't that interested and he doesn't make me happy. I guess it's the difference between meeting people IRL and online. The other dudes I met IRL so they have a feeling of who I really am??? They would constantly message me. Maybe it's time to quit this thing. Or I'll just continue so I can keep my blog interesting. I'll see how it goes. NEXT!

I think you people might like the next one in a good way. =)