I started watching this variety show about HK women giving up everything just for the man they love and start over in a new country. Yes, it made me tear quite a bit. Usually if a show makes me tear, it's a good show.
I want to praise the host because during the time of filming she separated with her husband and I think it wasn't announced yet. It must hurt a lot seeing so much happy couples and knowing how your other half isn't the one to grow old with. =( She teared so much in the show. *pat pat*
The host said "sometimes us women can be pretty crazy for the man we love". So true but men are too stupid to know. "If a man truly loves you, you feel like cleaning the street is worth it". I actually don't know what she means by cleaning street because Cantonese have lots of slangs, not sure if that is one. If not then I guess it means women will suffer with the man that truly loves her?
One woman said "marriage is a gamble", yea you never know what will happen. If you try it, it may not turn out good or maybe it's perfect. But if you don't try, for sure you won't know.
One woman's story was kind of sad. she had a fiance in HK but because of an accident he couldn't handle it and left her. Then she met another guy who made another girl pregnant... Then she met her husband who doesn't mind her past and everything. At first she wanna see if everything will scare him off but it didn't. I guess like my friend said 3rd time is the charm? Well, some people go through tons before the "charm".
I was testing "that person" before too, I just thought it was unreal. Tell/say stuff to him that I think he probably would mind as his ideal gal. I know Libra likes things pretty/perfect. And I'm non of the above. Not sure if those played a part in his decision but whatever.
The host said "How we see tons of people everyday but none of them is the one. Why is the one on the other side of the world? There is no reason. Maybe in their past lives they made a promise to meet each other again. Maybe its a challenge to see if they will remember each other when they see again at a particular place?". Yup, no reason, that's why we always ask why. WHY!?
"Not everyone is that lucky. Not everyone will grow old with the person they meet. But don't give up that love will happen to you". True.
Will I move to a new country for someone I love. Hm...I don't know. The thing is I don't want to leave my family. And it also depends what country I have to go to. I also had this talk with that person but I said I don't want to leave my family. I'm a family person so leaving my family is like the most painful thing ever.
Would you want to start fresh in a new country for a man? You will have to learn a new language like a baby. You may be looked down at by others. Would you be able to handle all those challenges? Just for the name of love?
Typed in October.
Random moment, I like this, I like the whole what if part. Life is full of "what ifs" and "why", at least for me.
What If - Kane Brown ft. Lauren Alaina
"You say what if I hurt you, what if I leave you
What if I find somebody else and I don't need you
What if this goes south, what if I mess you up
You say what if I break your heart in two then what
What if I was made for you and you were made for me
What if this is it, what if it's meant to be
What if I ain't one of them fools just playin' some game
What if I just pulled you close, what if I leaned in
And the stars line up and it's our last first kiss
What if one of these days baby I'd go and change your name
What if I loved all these what ifs away
Well we ain't never gonna know unless we try it"
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