I was listening to my parents talk while I was cleaning up my room. My mom was saying how one of my cousin married this guy who has nothing and they always argue now. How she didn't pick this guy her aunt introduced, he had car, house and everything. My dad said "Well, it's hard to say. If she likes then she likes. So what if that guy has everything, he may not be good."
While I was listening I'm like hm...sounds like me... I didn't fall for the person that had everything, instead I fell for someone that had nothing. That's just life. I think both of my parents are right. I understand both point of view. Which parent doesn't want their little girl to find someone that has everything and can take care of her? Which parent doesn't want their children to be happy, finding someone they like and someone that likes them? Love is a strange thing.
"That person" actually asked me a few times what my parents would think of him. Um...I really don't know. They should be ok with anyone as long as I like and that person likes me and is good to me. They may think he is ok but if now, it's probably a no way (if I told them). Friends said they will never give him a pass after what happened... Another cousin said "he is just a good looking bad a**"... Line from drama, "you can get hurt by a man once but don't give that man a second chance to hurt you". I don't know... plus not like we will ever see again (I think), calm down people, calm down.
I've been asking some of my friends if their boyfriends are "the one". Most replied "no". I asked "then why are you still with him?". They all replied "I just enjoy being with him right now". Why am I even asking? I know the reason myself because I did that too... Before anything I already knew "that person" wasn't the one. I remember I told one of my bestie he would be good for a boyfriend but I don't see him as a husband type at this point. I guess it's good it ended, at least I don't have to worry about our future like my cousin... But when you like someone, you wouldn't mind that kind of stuff. Stupid right?
Sometimes I wonder how people know if someone is "the one" right when they meet them. Let's see if I'll ever bump into someone that would give me that feeling or the other way around, haven't yet.
Random moment, I was watching this super old drama and it was playing this song. I like it.
MLTR - That's Why You Go Away
"Baby won't you tell me why there is sadness in your eyes
I don't wanna say goodbye to you
Love is one big illusion I should try to forget
But there is something left in my head
You're the one who set it up now you're the one to make it stop
I'm the one who's feeling lost right now
Now you want me to forget every little thing you said
But there is something left in my head
You were never satisfied no matter how I tried
Now you wanna say goodbye to me
Sitting here all alone in the middle of nowhere
Don't know which way to go
There ain't so much to say now between us
There ain't so much for you
There ain't so much for me anymore"
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