Different Timeline

As we get older we see more and more of those engagement, wedding, pregnant pictures on our social media. Most of those pictures are people we dislike. We get sad/mad and think how unfair life is. How someone that horrible can find someone, get married and have a family. Why?

Well, not everyone has the same timeline. No-one has to have the same timeline as everyone else. Some people may be "lucky" and get whatever they want. Some people may wait for their whole lifetime or give up completely. Who said we have to get married in our 20's? Who said we have to get married at all? Who said we need someone?

I once heard from somewhere that we should enjoy being single because once we have found someone, we won't have much alone time. We will face this person our whole life anyways (maybe). So true! Might as well enjoy what those "lucky" people don't have. When we have someone, we put almost all our time on them. We don't even have time to watch our drama, play our games or do our own stuff (yup, did that, been there).

Who said we have to have kids before a certain age? Who said we have to be financially stable by a certain age? Who said we have to retire at 65? Everyone is different. There isn't a set timeline that everyone has to follow. We make our own timeline. Do whatever we want at whatever age.

As long as we are happy, that's all it matters, right?

Typed in September.

Random moment, watching a bunch of old drama and I heard this song. I like. I wish nothing has ever happened too...
蘇永康 - 從來未發生
"浮浮沉沉裡太多路過人　卻與你走近
這是緣份　曾是我心愛情人
糊糊塗塗裡也許合後必分
令我跌進黑暗
計算內這樣事情原是沒可能
可惜最終　仍是發生
仍然是發生　當刻骨的愛飄散似灰塵
沒有與你終老  這是遺憾
沒法再看通透　前路像驟光驟暗
不想發生　仍是發生"