I'm a rare gem, hehe. =) Only "1-3% of the general population" have it. This personality is called "INFJ personality type", sounds fancy... "INFJ personality contains introversion, intuitive, feeling, and judging"
Onto the 15 characteristics
1. You like to write - "prefer to write than speak", yup, don't think I'm good at talking. I can talk a lot if I'm close with someone. I can shut my mouth the whole time if I want to. "They find peace in writing because it allows them the creativity to express their thoughts", yup, just look at this blog. Used to write but I type now, it's faster.
2. You overthink a lot - "they have to go over it in their head a million times before they can feel secure", a bit, but not about security, pretty much anything.
3. You have an all-or-nothing mentality - "if you are not capable of giving your absolute best, then you shouldn't start doing it in the first place", a bit as well.
4. You have trouble putting thoughts into words - "Their thoughts are often so complex and jumbled that it's hard to figure out what exactly they want to say". Oh, that is so me. One reason why I have trouble talking. Like I always have these thoughts on my mind but I can never say it or don't know how to put it in words. Yea, it's just that hard for me. The stuff I say, I think people get really confused by it. I just don't know how to word things...
One example, the chef asked if I remember this sous chef. At first I didn't then I remembered, I said "yes, that time, you guys dressed like you were going to the beach, shorts and stuff", both of them were like..................ok? I was wording it weirdly too. Seriously, no-one can remember things like I do so they won't get me. I just said "nevermind". Like who even remembers what they wore yesterday? I was reminding them about what they wore in the summer when I met that sous chef... Obviously people are thinking WTF is wrong with her. Sigh...
5. You are a loner - Hm...I do have a few good friends so I'm not a loner. I would never go and eat or drink by myself, it's a bit weird. "They choose to isolate themselves from the world in order to get in touch with their inner self and organize their thoughts", that is a bit true. Sometimes I just like to be by myself. Like at work, I like to eat by myself because if I eat with others I have to talk to them but all I want to do is sit there and eat, watch my drama and play my game. At home, I just want my own time to do my own stuff.
6. You can fit in anywhere - Really? Anywhere? Can I fit into the gap between 2 doors? =P "extremely flexible people who can fit in with just about any crowd", not really. It depends what kind of crowd, not sure on this one. I'm ok liked by people.
7. You are empathetic and sensitive - "unbelievably caring and generous people", caring, yes, generous, depends who it is. "sensitive to the feelings of others. They would never intentionally hurt someone." Totally, I'm very crazy about how others feel. There was a time I felt like I was acting really cold and mean towards someone. I felt so bad to the point that I can't stop thinking how horrible I am and if I hurt someone's feelings. I went so crazy, I couldn't even sleep. =(
8. You carefully select your friends - "They are very selective of who they surround themselves with. They only want to hang out with people who share the same values as they do and also respect their alone time.", kinda. I don't carefully select friends, I can be friends with anyone but then if I feel like that friend isn't good then I will slowly back out from that friendship.
9. You seek the truth - "fascinated by the mysteries of our universe...They could spend the entire night just watching the stars drift by. They aren't interested in ordinary things like who won this week's sports game", a bit. Sometimes I do get fascinated like a kid but not really about the universe, just anything. I could spend the night just watching the stars but I would like to stay inside. Summer, too hot and mosquitos, winter, too cold. =) Wanna watch stars with me?
10. You trust your intuition - "can easily sense when something isn't right. This is one of their most important characteristics. Not only do they have a deep sense of intuition, but they listen to their gut feelings. Their gut is almost never wrong." Totally, I know I'm pretty good at sensing things but people just don't trust me or say I'm thinking too much. I do listen to my gut, not sure if it's always right.
11. You're a hard worker - Yea, I'm ok. I wouldn't say super hard working.
12. You're conscious of the future - "They face challenges head-on and do not get discouraged when things do not go their way. Instead of getting upset, this only motivates them more". Not really, I hate challenges but it's something I cannot avoid so I will face it head-on and happily. I do get upset if things don't go my way but there is nothing I can do about it either.
13. You can solve problems - "excellent at sorting things out. They're usually right most of the time". Sometimes, not always. I can't even solve my own problems sometimes. However, I am a good person to talk to, at least people always say I'm the first person to know something...? Yes, tell me everything then you will feel better. =D
14. You're full of contradictions - "They can go from happy to sad in a heartbeat. Their emotions are constantly changing, which can make them especially difficult to keep track of". Kinda, not really. I can be super unhappy but if someone gives me chocolate or do something nice it puts a smile back on my face. Ice cream works too. =) I don't think my emotion can change in a heartbeat, that is a bit intense...
15. You can read people - "This skill comes from their deep emotional intelligence. They can see right through people's words and actions. They can identify a manipulator very quickly. They use this trait to protect themselves by removing those negative people from their lives". Yup, sometimes. That's how I know if people are good or not. While other friends don't find that stuff out until later on. It is one way to protect myself and I know if you are being fake or not. But if that person is really good at acting then it's hard to find out. When I meet new people, I'm constantly observing them. That's how I find things out.
10 Secrets of the INFJ Personality Type
These sounds like me.
INFJ Relationships
Kinda? Not really?
Well, that's all. Anyone out there with this rare personality?
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